
Hello friends and family, and God bless you all. I haven’t written a post in awhile. I am still dealing with health issues and a broken heart. My visit with the surgeon a couple weeks ago was disappointing. I will be getting a second opinion soon. My options for surgery are not looking good, and I am praying about what to do. I also had to decline the job offer due to continued suffering and fatigue, which has been discouraging. Despite all of this, I wanted to take a moment to wish my Dad and all the Dads out there a very Happy Father’s Day.
Our family has been relaxing together today. We might go to the beach to watch the sunset tonight, then go to our favorite ice cream shop in town. I can’t eat dairy, buy I always enjoy taking my wife and kids out for ice cream. It makes me happy to see them happy.
If you are a stay at home Dad who is suffering a chronic illness like me, please don’t ever give up. Keep on loving your family and caring for them the best you can. You are loved and needed, and being a father is a great purpose and honor in life. We might not be able to do certain things other Dads can do, but we are here for our families and we can love them and care for them with all our hearts.
God is our best example of a loving Father, and when we believe in Jesus we are filled with the Holy Spirit to love like He loves us. The Lord will never leave us nor forsake us. He has compassion on us and He will always take good care of us. May we always press on and love like He loves us.
“He who fears the LORD has a secure fortress, and for his children it will be a refuge.” -Proverbs 14:26
“As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him.” -Psalm 103:13
To my Dad, thank you for always being there for me. Thank you for your discipline and guidance, and teaching me to live with integrity and honesty. Thank you for your strong work ethic and perseverance, and thank you for never giving up on me through all the mistakes I’ve made. I love you, Dad. Happy Father’s Day.
Grace and peace to all the fathers out there. Have a blessed Father’s Day.
Grace and peace to you all.
I thank you for never giving up and doing things to make your kids happy. You are a good Dad too Ryan!
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Thank you. I appreciate the encouragement. God bless!
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Dad
Singer-songwriter: Oscar Medina
Dad I’ve wanted to tell you for so long How much I love you Dad Today that you are with me receive from your son His great admiration
For you
That you gave me so much in exchange for nothing Only out of love
I ask your forgiveness if I offended you
I never want to hurt your heart again
Let me embrace you
And fill you with kisses
Your white hair
Kiss your cheeks
And heal the wounds
That time left behind
I want you to impart to me Your wise counsel
And engrave it in my heart Time will pass
I will always be grateful
How much you loved me
And sacrificed yourself, just for me, Daddy
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Amen. Beautiful song, brother, thank you. Blessings.
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Amen brother Ryan God bless you 🙂
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I’ve been praying for you! 🙏 I was just wondering how you were doing. Sorry to hear about the bad news. I hope there’s better news with the second opinion.
I hope you’re having a very blessed Father’s Day!
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Thanks, Michelle. I appreciate your prayers. God bless you and your family, and Happy Father’s Day to your husband.
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Beautiful father’s sentiment, Ryan. You are the most loving and fun Dad, and my grandchildren are so very blessed to have you!!! Thank you for the loving words to your Dad, they meant the world… you are a wonderful son that he loves and admires so much, that goes for both of us! Hope your evening at the beach is a restful and beautiful one. Love you, Ry. Love, Mom
P.S. We both are praying for your dr. appointment tomorrow, too, that you hear encouragement and receive help!
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Thanks, Mom. I love you both with all my heart.
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Happy Father’s Day. 🙂
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Thanks, Jeanne. 😊 God bless.
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You as well. 🙂
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Ryan,
I’m praying for you, brother! I remember you in my prayers. I’m sorry for the health challenges and the position. You are such a testimony for faith, grace, and grit! Prayers and blessings! Happy Father’s Day! 🙏🏻💚💛
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Thank you. I appreciate your prayers & encouragement. God bless.
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You’re welcome. I have to tell you that I had trouble finding you. I would read a post and couldn’t log in and if I typed in your name it was NOT the Ryan Callahan in which I was searching. I have your posts coming to my email. I did change my email on WP. It seems about every two to three weeks I encounter an issue. But it always works itself out. I’m glad to see you! And you have much support and encouragement here! 🙏🏻💛
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Thank you. I hope everything is okay with WP. Thanks for telling me, and thanks for the support.😊
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You’re welcome! 🙂 if I stay ok one device only it seems to work better for me. I’ll comment and like someone’s post on my PC only to find the next day the comment will be there but the like is “unliked”. On my mobile it doesn’t. These are small things in life unlike your battles. And we know how it ends! Thank you, Jesus!
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Amen. I truly pray Jesus comes back soon.
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Amen, Ryan!
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Ryan, thank you for those caring words, and know that if you stay close to your Faith and be vigilant in your attitude, then you will always be a success to you and your family. A man is not measured by money or vocation, but is remembered for all the good he does in this world and the positive imprint he leaves others with his actions. God Bless you, Ryan, and all that you do for your family and others. Love you! Love, Dad.
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Thanks, Dad, amen. Love you!
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Happy Father’s Day Ryan! Many prayers my brother!
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Thanks, Vivian. Tell Mark Happy Father’s Day. Praying for you guys. God bless you all!
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I appreciate your prayers Ryan!
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Happy Father’s day to you Ryan. God bless.
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Thank you. God bless you too.
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Ryan, I just love this. You really hit the nail on the head about being there to love your children because that is the greatest success as a Dad. My father died of terminal illness when I was 12. I know how much you want to work and provide for you family financially but if all we can do is be there and love each other….that is the greatest gift. I will pray for you to find peace from your illness.
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Thank you, Karla. Your words touch my heart. I’m sorry your Dad died when you were young. You are right, loving each other is the greatest gift. Thank you for your prayers. Praying peace and comfort for you as well. God bless you.
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Sir,wish you a happy Father’s Day.Praying for your good health,May the good Lord strengthen you in all your sufferings physical and spiritual both.Take care.🌹🙏
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Thank you, sir. Blessings to you and your family.
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Amen.Thanks a lot sir.🌹🙏
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Hi Ryan, your posts are so heartfelt and encouraging to read. They bless many people. You can tell the light of Christ is in you. Praying that God will draw near to you and strengthen you at this time and direct your paths. Lamentations3: 22-23. “. Through the Lords mercies we are not consumed, Because His compassions fail not. They are new every morning:Great is your faithfulness”.
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Thank you, I appreciate your kind words. God bless you.
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Praying for you my brother. 🙏🏻
This is beautiful. The love you have for your family is beautiful and your faith in God is inspiring. God bless you. 💕
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Thank you, sister. Blessings.
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In prayer.
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Thank you, Bonnie. Blessings.
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To you also.
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Praying for you, my friend
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Thank you, Brenda. God bless.
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Hope you had a Happy Father’s Day, Ryan. Praying for you. I know this post will encourage fathers out there facing similar circumstances. God is so faithful and true. He never leaves or forsakes us. Thank you for being a positive role model through it all. 🙏🏼
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Thank you, Renee. Blessings.
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Thanks for your like of my post, ” Tribulation Prophecies And Doctrine 11 – The Meaning Of Weeks 3. ;” you are very gracious.
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Happy Father’s Day, Ryan! May the father’s love, meet your heart, at the second opinion!
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Thank you, Warren. God bless you.
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You’re welcome!
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Happy Father’s Day! Praying for a miracle.
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Thanks, brother. I’ve been praying for your family. Hope you are all well. God bless.
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Thanks. We’re not lacking much at the moment, and waiting to hear back about the houses we’ve applied for. My parents have split up, though.
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I’m sorry to hear about your parents. I will pray for healing and peace for them and your family.
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Hope you had a great Father’s Day Ryan.
Praying for you.
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Thanks, Crissy. Blessings.
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I hope your Father’s Day was good and praying you’re feeling better!!
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Thanks, Alicia. God bless!
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I’m sorry to hear that surgery doesn’t seem to be an option for you. Praying that will change. The picture of Venice Beach is beautiful. So cool that you could capture the beautiful colors and shadows of people. Looks like it belongs on the cover of a travel brochure. 🙂 Blessings to you, brother.
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Thanks, Dee. It has been very discouraging lately. I appreciate your prayers and encouragement. Blessings.
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You know, I was thinking the other day about some stuff in my life and just how difficult some things have been for a long time and show no promise of ever changing and I became really discouraged. But God led me to Philippians 3:10 where Paul says, “I want to know Christ and experience the mighty power that raised him from the dead. I want to suffer with him, sharing in his death, so that one way or another I will experience the resurrection from the dead.”
He reminded me that to suffer in this life, is to share in the sufferings of Christ–no matter what our sufferings are. If we endure it with Him (rather than Him healing us or fixing our lives – which would be preferable to all of us) this becomes our allotted suffering, just as Him dying for us was His allotted and accepted suffering. I think we as Christians tend to think of suffering for Christ as being persecution or something someone does to us simply because we are Christians. But God showed me that suffering for Christ is enduring what He has allowed in our lives in order to transform and purify us into His spotless bride.
I think of Joseph, Moses, David, Daniel and all the other greats of the Bible and I see that they were great men of God because they suffered immensely. They shared in the sufferings of Christ, and by it were purified and were able to draw closer to Him through it. For some reason, suffering is God’s chosen avenue to knowing Christ more intimately. Perhaps because suffering willingly, burns off the dross in our lives that separates us from God. I suppose that’s why Paul equates suffering with knowing Christ and attaining to the resurrection from the dead, not just in the end but even now as we live in these bodies.
Maybe this resonates with you, maybe not. But I wanted to share it because God has really changed my thinking and threshold for suffering through it. Blessings to you, Ryan.
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Amen, thanks Dee. That is definitely good to remember.
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